Monday, December 31, 2012

MY 2012 was ...

Where do I start?
2012 has been crazy! And by crazy, I mean hectic! Phew! When the year was starting, I believed it was going to be an amazing and awesome year for me. Why? Because I love even numbers. You know, like, "2,4,6,8,10" etc. You get it? So 2012 was an even year, so I thought, "This owe to be great!"
I was not so wrong, but neither was I right. 2012 was ... Oh well, let's round it off together, perhaps you will help me conclude with ONE WORD to describe my year.

1. At the start of the year, I really had no stable job. Yes I act and sing but those depend a lot on if one has lots of gigs booked- which I sort of did not. So the year started off really slow.

2. The magazine for which I wrote for also took a break to sort out some issues so that was a downer.

3. Good thing I had my radio job which I enjoy and my colleagues and bosses are awesome!! :) So that kept me on my feet. It gave me something to look forward to each day.

4. A book project in which I was a part of as a writer started off well with good money too besides loving to do it but then it came to a standstill and took forever to kick off again. As I type, things are looking up again.

5. A documentary in which I worked as the interviewer went well and boy was I busy those months, the team and I ensuring we shoot and get all we need to make it top notch. After we handed in the documentary, which was like many months ago, we have not received a penny for our hardwork. That was such a big downer for me and I hate it. I find people who work like this REALLY unprofessional and inconsiderate. I am sure you know what I mean because many a Ugandan do this. Get a service given and then they are reluctant or too slow to pay up- yet they were calling everyday before as you did the work, but now you call to ask about your payment, and suddenly they are busy or not available or they just don't answer or they keep making empty promises.. blah, blah, blah!

Anyway, moving on.

6. I broke up with my long term boyfriend (end last year). Yes. I was dating someone but realised we were on two different chapters of our lives so I thought it best to let go and move on. It has been the best decision I have made all year! I feel so much better. I am more fulfilled- spiritually, emotionally & mentally uplifted. :) 

7. It was my late father's memorial this year in August and it took a toll on me. Sadness, depression, lots of questions unanswered... etc. I mean, that is what you feel when your dad is murdered for unclear reasons. His body was never found so he was never buried. We had to make a plaque for him and my aunt with whom he was killed. I had to write a message on it that was deep and close to my heart. Then we travelled all the way to the village, where the ceremony was held. A lot was going on in my life already, this was another downer. The good side of it though is that finally there is a tombstone with my father's name & picture on it. It was a form of closure for me. Rest in peace dad.

8. My music recording has been going well so far and I am glad the public is receiving my new song well. More singles are set to come out in 2013 so yes, this has been an upside for me. Got to perform at Ruth Komuntale's (the Tooro Princess) welcome party with her fiance, performed at Club Amnesia which premiered my video for my single "Party on My Mind", had a number of press interviews about my work, met amazing people; so I thank God for all the opportunities he has accorded me in 2012.

9. I got nominations for my work:
- In the current Radio & TV Academy Awards 2012 for OUTSTANDING NEWCOMER FEMALE RADIO PRESENTER (I co-host a show dubbed "THE JAM" at Radiocity 97fm, every Monday to Friday, 3pm-7pm) https://www.facebook.com/radiocity.ug?ref=ts&fref=ts
The voting is still ongoing online at  http://www.quibblo.com/quiz/hLQsAr-/RTV-ACADEMY-AWARDS-2013-WHO-MIGHT-WIN?view_quiz=1
If you are in Uganda, you can also vote by SMS. Simply type: RTVA Cleopatra 12
 and then send to 8888.

- MOST GIFTED ACTRESS in the Super Talent Awards 2012
-In the Pearl International Film Festival 2012 for BEST SUPPORTING ACTRESS in the film, State Research Bureau.
Being acknowledged for my work is humbling and it makes work even harder. I take nothing for granted.

10. Lastly, I got to do a lot of inspirational talks to students in schools with Reach a Hand Uganda, a charity organisation that focuses on the youths, and I am a Goodwill Ambassador. It was inspiring to me too and sharing with these young people, encouraging and mentoring them is my way of giving back to the community.   http://www.reachahand.org/

11. Ofcourse a few friends disappointed me.... and I guess I disappointed a few too, but this is life. We cannot please everyone. We win some, lose some. I have come to terms with it. I hope you have too.

12. Those who owe me money do not seem like they want to pay me back. Sucks!

Well, 2012 was ....... for me. (You can fill in the blank)
I pray 2013 is way much better for me and for you. It's no longer about "Odds" and "Evens". I do not believe in that anymore, thanks to 2012. Let's toast to the future! Cheers. :)

Monday, December 17, 2012

Emptiness

Emptiness....
Emptiness is what I feel sometimes...
Can't fight it, no matter how much I try,
My body quivers as I shiver
I try to speak but words fail me
"Oh if only I could say it", I think to myself.

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!
I scream my lungs out
Fall to the ground almost lifeless
Then begin to shake,
I am not dying,
I am crying...
and crying...
and crying.

Is it better to be dead than hurt this much?
I ask,
Is it better to be dead than hurt this much?
The pain I feel is intense
The void is immense
Pluck my heart out of me
These emotions I do not want.

How else will you know the feeling?
What feeling?
The feeling of love
The feeling of anything.
Without the heart
We are nothing.
I feel emptiness sometimes
But this is life
This moment shall pass.

Is anybody out there? ANSWER ME!

Hello? Hello? ...
Helloooooo?
I am talking to you reading this. Are you there? Can you please prove to me you are by posting a comment or something on my blog? I swear most times I feel as if I am sharing thoughts with myself. I need you to interact with me or else I am dying here. :( Going nuts in other words.

Thanks to those of you who take time to indulge with me on my blog. The majority simply view/read and click away.... yes I know coz it shows me how many views each post gets but if that was in accordance with your feedback and sharing, it would be AWESOME!! Plus, I would be wiser due to sharing with you. :)

Now come on, do not shatter my spirit by staying silent, write back, say something.... That is the reason for this blog. My thoughts, your feedback.

I will look forward to hearing from you, the man/woman behind a computer/laptop. That's supposed to be an evil laugh. Lol. ;) Okay, not necessary, I get it.

xoxo.

Sunday, November 4, 2012

East Africa, STAND UP!!! Vote!

We may be in what is referred to as the "dark continent" but I believe we are doing a lot to make a mark in the world or at least leave an imprint. This is most particularly thorough entertainment, this time, musically!!
We are raising our East African flags high in Africa and outside it. Okay, getting to the point, most of you may know about the Channel O Music Video Awards, yes? Good! Well, we have about eight musicians from East Africa who were nominated in these awards and we need to VOTE for them so we bring these accolades home and earn more respect for our talents. I do not know about you but I believe in supporting our own then on to the rest, I hope you are with me on this one. Charity begins at home, right? I am only voting for my fellow East Africans in all these categories. The only tight spot is the two categories I put at the bottom where a few of them appear together; the one you pick to vote for is entirely up to you.
So below are the E.A nominees, their codes and the SMS number +27839208406 to which you send your votes, for a very little charge of about USH220 (KSH 7). You can also vote via the web at www.channelo.dstv.com ONCE EVERY HOUR. Go to the 2012 MVAs and you will see all the categories. Voting ends soon so vote as many times as you can for your favorite. Share this with friends on Blogger, Twitter, Facebook, Myspace, Google+ and so on. LET US VOTE!!

   Artist                           Category                    Song/Video                Code        SMS 
MAURICE KIRYA  Most Gifted Afro Pop      Don't Wannna Fight      7E         +27839208406

CAMP MULLA       Most Gifted Newcomer   Party Don't Stop            3D                    "
                                                                             ft. Collo
       "                         Most Gifted Duo/Group   Fresh All Day               4E                    "

WYRE                     Most Gifted Ragga           Dancehall Party             6E                    "
                                     Dancehall                            

KEKO                     Most Gifted Female         Make You Dance            2E                     "
                                        Video                          ft. Madtraxx

HABIDA                Most Gifted RnB              My Reason                     9E                     "
                                       Video                           ft. Cannibal

K'NAAN                Most Gifted HipHop         Nothing To Lose            10E                   "
                                      Video                            ft. Nas

AY                         Most Gifted Male Video   Speak With Your Body   1E            +27839208406
                                                                          ft. Romeo & Lamyia

MOST GIFTED AFRICAN EAST VIDEO
Artist                        Song                       Code           Send SMS to
NAVIO                  One & Only                13E            +27839208406

KEKO                   Make you Dance         13A                     "
 ft. Madtraxx

AY ft. Sauti Sol     I Don't Want               13C                     "
                              To Be Alone

K'NAAN ft Nas    Nothing To Lose        13D                      "
 
CAMP MULLA   Party Don't Stop          13B             +27839208406
   ft. Collo

MOST GIFTED VIDEO OF THE YEAR
Artist                            Song                  Code               Send SMS to
CAMP MULLA     Fresh All Day            14I                +27839208406
 
AY ft.                  Speak with Yo Body     14J                +27839208406                   
Romeo & Lamyia 

I really hope you VOTE! It counts! Let's keep East Africa up in a positive light!! If not politically, at least musically. Cheers!


            

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

THE GIRL CHILD MATTERS TOO!

 As a child, I dreamed of a future filled with love, fairness and opportunities for all of us, be it a girl or boy.
As I grew, I realised that not all of us were as lucky. The girl child's education did not seem to be as important as that of a boy. In some instances, the girl would be told to stay home and do chores as her siblings who were boys, were taken to school. I felt bad when I grew to realise that the world was not fair. That while I went to school, a fellow girl somewhere else in my country was digging in the farm, or cooking in the kitchen or picking firewood and the like. In some areas, countries and cultures, a baby girl was seen as a curse and would be killed but the baby boy would be perceived as a blessing and would be celebrated.
My heart bled because the girl child was being ignored and treated as irrelevant and unimportant.
Some would be married off at the tender age of thirteen. I could not imagine myself getting married at such an age. I wished... and wished... and wished.... that there would come a change in my country.
That was 30 years ago but a lot has changed since then. Today, lots of girls go to school, are protected against early marriages and I am ever so grateful to the Non-Governmental Organisations (NGOs) and people who came up to put up a fight for the Girl Child. I see more influential women in the world today: Internationally, I can point out Michelle Obama, Joyce Meyer, Oprah Winfrey etc and our very own local strong women in Uganda such as Jeniffer Musisi, Rebecca Kadaga, Maggie Kigozi, Julia Sebutinde, Sylvia Nagginda (the Queen of Buganda), Allen Kagina and so on. The list is endless. Imagine if they had been ignored and not given a chance or not been educated??
I am a Goodwill Ambassador for an NGO called Reach A Hand Uganda (RAHU) www.reachahanduganda.org and with them, we aim at empowering the youth. Our slogan is "Young People For Young People". We aim at helping the youth aged between 10-24 to make informed choices and we do this by going out to the schools and communities in the urban and rural areas and I personally share my life's journey so far, with them. We encourage the girls to stay in school and get education, to have focus and direction. Girls are the mothers of a nation. If they are lost, then the nation is as good as lost too.
What are you doing for your community? Who are you reaching out to? Try and make a difference in someone's life. Let us make our world a better place. It starts with you and I. Let's support the Girl Child and get rid of the oppression, abuse and suppression. A girl can make a great contribution to the world too. It's not only a man's world--it's our world- both girls and boys, men and women. If we work together, we will achieve much more than working apart or against each other. I am for the GIRL CHILD, are you? Reach out your hand to her today and always.


BACKGROUND: The International Day of the Girl Child promotes girls’ rights and highlights gender inequalities that remain between girls and boys. It is a UN observance that is annually held on October 11.
The International Day of the Girl Child gives people and organizations the opportunity to raise public awareness of the different types of discrimination and abuse that many girls around the world suffer from. On this day, many community and political leaders talk to the public about the importance of girls’ right to equal education and their fundamental freedoms. Various events are held to showcase the work that people are doing to empower girls through active support and engagement with parents, families, and the wider community.

THE BOOK OF KIRYA

You may have heard of the name MAURICE KIRYA... If you hadn't yet, then now you have. :)
He is a Ugandan musician who refers to his genre & style of music as "Mwooyo", a Luganda word to mean "Soul". In other words, he does Soul music. He is known for his hits such as: I Will Sing, Revolution, among others plus I Don't Wanna Fight, Ugandan Girl & Mulembe Gwa Kirya which are the latest singles off his new album and the fans seem to love each track.
Anyway, getting straight to the point, Maurice Kirya is set to release his 2nd long awaited album, THE BOOK OF KIRYA, this Friday 12th October 2012 starting 11am at the Cineplex Hub at Nakumatt Oasis (Kampala, Uganda). A CD will cost UGX25,000 only (about KSH800). It will be worth it because when it comes to quality, Maurice does not compromise. He aims to give the best of the best.
What are friends for? Let's spread the word.Share this with your friends/family/other bloggers etc. You will want to own a copy of THE BOOK OF KIRYA. 
He is a nominee in the Channel O Africa Music Video Awards in the Most Gifted Afro Pop Video category as seen below. Online voting is available for web at www.channelo.tv. Online voting is free of charge, but you may online vote once per hour, per category.
MOST GIFTED AFRO POP VIDEO
Jozi – Ugologo Code: 7A
DJ Sbu ft. Zahara – Lengoma Code: 7B
Gal Level ft. Toniks – Money Code: 7C
Brymo – Ara Code: 7D
Maurice KiryaI Don’t Want To Fight Code: 7E

Voting is available on these platforms:
SMS: artist voting code to the number +27 83 920 8406. Standard SMS rates apply.
Web and WAP: awards.dstv.com/channelo/
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/channelotv

Below is a link to his website in case you want to know all about MAURICE KIRYA. By the way, he is proudly Ugandan, Proudly East African & Proudly African.... just like me! See you at the press release event.
 www.mauricekirya.com